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04 — The Untangled Programme™

The Untangled Programme

Twelve sessions over approximately three months. Not a larger package of the same thing, and not the natural next purchase after coaching: it is the version of this work that has enough time in it for the later stages to be more than an intention.

What this is, in short

In practice

Who it is for
Individuals and couples in a situation that has been difficult for a long time, where understanding and practical change both need time to hold.
What it is for
Carrying the work through the whole of The Untangled Method™ rather than its opening stages, at a pace that allows change to be lived with rather than agreed to.
What happens
A sustained series of sessions shaped around your situation, with the later stages — what can be repaired, what needs to change and by whom, what renewal looks like — given proper room.
How long
12 sessions over approximately three months, approximately three months, online.
What it costs
£3,000 for twelve sessions over approximately three months.
What happens next
You may book and pay for the programme directly, or begin with a free Discovery Call if you would rather talk it through with Kajal first.
Fees
Individuals and couples — 12 sessions over approximately three months
£3,000

12 sessions over approximately three months, online

Paid in advance through Wise. Kajal then arranges your first session and agrees the programme schedule with you.

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Why somebody might consider it

Some situations do not need this. A single focused session, or a five-session block of ongoing coaching, is the right size for a great deal of what people bring, and choosing one of those is not a smaller version of the same decision. The programme exists for the situations where a pattern has been running for years, where a decision about the relationship is genuinely open, or where both people want to rebuild something rather than only stop the damage.

What the extra time changes is the second half of the work. Understanding a pattern happens relatively quickly. Living differently inside it does not: it takes attempts, failures worth examining, and enough weeks for the change to survive an ordinary bad month. That is the part a longer arrangement protects.

The programme follows The Untangled Method™ flexibly. Nobody moves through seven stages in a neat sequence — people circle back to calm, revisit reflection after a difficult week, and reach repair or release in their own time. The stages describe the movement of the work, not a schedule it is held to.

  1. CrisisWhat has happened?
  2. CalmHow can I think clearly?
  3. ClarityWhat is the real problem?
  4. ReflectionWhat is my part?
  5. RepatternWhat can change?
  6. Repair or ReleaseWhat happens next?
  7. RenewalHow do I move forward?

Read the full chapter on the seven stages

Alone or together

You can work with Kajal on your own, or the two of you can attend together. One person can make the first call alone even if the difficulty involves both of you. What Kajal cannot do is coach somebody who is not in the room and taking part, so work described as couples work assumes you have both chosen to be there. Come Alone and Couples each set out what that looks like.

Starting the programme

The programme is twelve sessions over approximately three months, and the fee is £3,000, paid in advance. Once payment has been received, Kajal contacts you personally to arrange your first session and to agree the schedule for the rest.

If it turns out that a Clarity Session or a block of ongoing coaching would serve you better, she will say so.

Book & Pay

  • The Untangled Programme™

    £3,000

    12 sessions over approximately three months, online

    Book & Pay

Paid in advance through Wise. Kajal then contacts you personally to arrange the time.

If you have not already spoken with Kajal, you may prefer to begin with a free Discovery Call before choosing the full Untangled Programme™.

What happens next

  1. You give Kajal a few administrative details and pay the fee securely through Wise.
  2. Kajal is notified of your booking, and Wise notifies her separately once the payment has arrived.
  3. She then contacts you personally to arrange your first session and agree the programme schedule with you.
You do not choose session times online. The schedule is agreed with Kajal directly after payment.